Loving Others In A Divided World
Politics have always been divisive, but it seems this year has reached a whole new level of the “us” vs. “them” mentality. In the middle of a very tense election season, it can be hard figuring out how to navigate politics, especially as a Christian.
But even beyond politics, we are commanded to love others--and that includes those who believe differently than us.
“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”-Micah 6:8 (NIV)
As Christians, we are called to not only fight for justice and do what is right but to also show mercy and love. So, what does it look like to act justly and love mercy in the middle of an election?
Here are some ways we can love others in this political climate:
Stop and listen
One of the best things we can do when talking to people who believe differently than us is to listen. When we take time to hear someone out, instead of just shouting our opinions, people are more likely to listen to us as well. A helpful question to ask is this: Is my goal to have a two-way conversation or to tell someone they’re wrong?
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires” (James 1:19-20, NIV).
Give grace
Sometimes it’s hard to understand others’ point of view because we each see the world differently. Remember that everyone has their own unique experiences and backgrounds that have shaped who they are and what they believe. Try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes when having a conversation.
“But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it” (Ephesians 4:7, NIV).
“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone” (Colossians 4:6, NIV).
Limit your triggers
If you’re someone who tends to blow up on people when having a conversation around politics (I know I’m definitely guilty of this), it might be a good idea to set some boundaries. Get off social media; don’t respond to that relative’s email; unfollow some people. Know what sets you off and be wise about your interactions.
“Fools vent their anger, but the wise quietly hold it back” (Proverbs 29:11, NLT).
Focus on your sphere of influence
One reason we often get easily-angered and burned out is because we try to change everyone’s opinions at once. But let’s be real--your post on Facebook probably isn’t going to change the mind of some stranger on the internet. And that’s okay. Start by focusing on the people you’re close to. You’re more likely to listen and learn from those you already have a relationship with outside of politics. But still, be wise about who wants to have a healthy conversation and who just wants to pick a fight.
“Anyone who rebukes a mocker will get an insult in return. Anyone who corrects the wicked will get hurt. So don’t bother correcting mockers; they will only hate you. But correct the wise, and they will love you. Instruct the wise, and they will be even wiser. Teach the righteous, and they will learn even more” (Proverbs 9:7-9, NLT).
Remember who you are
Before you are an American, you are a Christian. Before you are (insert your political affiliation), you are a Christian. You are an ambassador of Christ before anything else. And even though Jesus was very vocal about what He believed, He also made it a priority to love others. So, as you engage in politics and have conversations with others, let love be your guide. Don’t let differing opinions be an excuse to forget who you are representing.
“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another,” (John 13:35, NIV).
Focus on what you have in common
Satan loves to see the Church divided and distracted from doing God’s work. That’s why it’s important for Christians to be intentional about focusing on what unites us, instead of what divides us. No matter our earthly differences or political beliefs, the Church is the body of Christ. We are united through our faith in Jesus, and He has called us to share the Gospel. Don’t let political quarrels keep you from loving your Christian brothers and sisters.
“Therefore I, a prisoner for serving the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of your calling, for you have been called by God. Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace” (Ephesians 4:1-3, NLT).
Trust God’s control
Fear and anger tend to take over when we put our faith in the wrong things. While being involved in politics and taking a stand for certain issues is important, our hope doesn’t lie in our government or in our earthly leaders. Our hope is in Jesus Christ. No matter who is in office, our God reigns above all. When you are aware of God’s control, you’re less likely to see someone’s political differences as a threat.
“And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful” (Colossians 3:15, NLT).
Pray
Talking with others about politics only goes so far. The real work is often behind the scenes. So, if you do nothing else, pray. Pray for God to reveal Himself. Pray for peace. Pray for our leaders. Pray that God leads your decisions--not just when it comes to an election, but also in your everyday life as you share His love with others.
As we navigate this tense time, remember that others will know you are Christ’s disciples--not by who you vote for, but by how you love one another.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Abigail is a 25-year-old freelance writer from Jackson, MS who earned her bachelor's degree in journalism and English from Mississippi College in 2015. She spends most of her time climbing ladders and recommending her favorite authors at Lemuria Books. You can read more of her writing at abbiewalker.com.