Propriety is not a word most of us know or use today. It means “characterized by appropriateness and stability.” As children of a holy God, this means behaving in a way that is appropriate for Christians and that doesn’t bring shame to the Gospel. 

But all things should be done with regard to decency and propriety and in an orderly fashion. -1 Corinthians 14:40

We can all easily think of examples when that doesn’t happen: it is the Christian who drops curse words in a conversation; the girl who is always wearing revealing clothing that makes even the women look away uncomfortably; or the guy who tells crude jokes. In the words of the prophet Jeremiah, “Are they ashamed of their loathsome conduct? No, they have no shame at all; they do not even know how to blush” (Jeremiah 6:15). Our world today is so used to selling sex, living a “free” lifestyle, speaking in crude language, and privacy is a thing of the past. 

Yet, there is a time and a place for everything. You wouldn’t show up to a black-tie event in jeans and everyone knows a bride wears a white wedding dress on her wedding day. It is what’s appropriate for the occasion. And for us children of God, from how we dress to how we react when someone cuts us off in traffic, our entire life must point people to Jesus.

This discipline of propriety seems especially elevated for us women, especially in the modern age where we’ve pretty much lost the art of femininity. Proverbs 31:25 highlights the traits of a virtuous woman before God’s eyes, including that she is “clothed with strength and dignity.” 

How many of us young women today are described as virtuous, elegant, dignified, honorable, strong, kind, and radiant? How many of us know when to keep silent even when we really want to participate in gossip or talk back to someone? How many of us are okay with dressing modestly even if it might mean getting less male attention because all the other girls around you are dressed more scantily and are boisterous? How  many of us are quick to lend a helping hand and to serve instead of spending our time in front of the mirror, shopping, hanging out or checking social media? How many of us does the world look at and say, “There is something different about her,” or “Surely she knows Jesus. Look at how she glows. How is she so at peace and joyful?”

“In the same way, that women also adorn themselves in decent clothing, with modesty and propriety; not just with braided hair, gold, pearls, or expensive clothing.” -1 Timothy 2:9

That is the discipline of propriety for a Godly woman - it is walking through this life with dignity and grace, fully secure in her identity as a royal daughter of a holy God. She is kind, well-mannered, thinks before she speaks, is continually learning with a humble spirit, dresses tastefully, and carries herself with confidence. She makes the Christian life seem appealing and beautiful, in a way that inspires and motivates others to embrace what is lovely.

This is an excerpt from our current small group devotional study, Habits of Devotion, an 8-week study on spiritual disciplines, including Bible study, prayer, fasting, propriety, submission, steadfastness and rest.

Click here to download the entire study and join our last live Bible study of the year here.

We recently made all of our devotionals and Bible studies like the one above available to you for free, which means we no longer have any revenue streams to support this ministry and rely solely on donations.

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With love,

Yelena Bosovik

Founder + Editor in Chief